Addyson James, 44, gets what she wants: a creampie

Addyson James, who's a 44-year-old cougar, is doing housework in booty cheek shorts and a low-cut top, and the guy who's watching her has a hard-on. She notices. He wants some of what she has. She wants some of what he has. Because this is 40SomethingMag.com, they both get what they want. Addyson gets a creampie.

Said Addyson, "The kind of guys that really get my motor running are confident, respectful, and know exactly what they want. I have a soft spot for gentlemen who aren't afraid to explore their wild side and can match my passion and intensity. My ideal guy is not intimidated by my confidence, or my sexual prowess. He's comfortable with his own sexuality and isn't afraid to explore new boundaries with me."

Addyson was born in Vermont and lives in Arizona, one of the swinger capitals of the world, and she is a swinger.

"Sexual assertiveness is one of my most-captivating qualities," she said. "My sexual assertiveness is rooted in self-awareness, empowerment and a deep understanding of my own desires. I am not afraid to take charge, to initiate and to explore the depths of my own sexuality. I am unapologetically myself, refusing to be bound by societal norms or expectations."

Which explains why she's here.