40something December 2003

"People don't think I look my age, and I don't usually tell them right away, either. But if I bring a guy or girl home from a bar and then blow his or her mind during sex, I'll say, 'What did you expect, honey? I'm 41!' I don't know if dressing up in things like garters and bodices is actually a fetish in the strict sense of the word, but I take my sex seriously, and I like to make it special.